Wed , � 11/9/2011 �5:24pm Ghana time

Hello Dear ,

It is pleasure meeting you here. I never expected I could come across someone like you on here. I liked almost everything about your profile. Well, sorry I couldn't respond early enough. I am a busy lady who works as a private journalist. I have been doing this work for a year now. I was a beautician before I jumped into this new job.I just got back from work since I work from the morning 7AM to 3PM my time. Hope you are away of my location. I am 36 years old, single never been married and have no kids and I am also from Ghana. I noticed my location showed different place on the site but I am no more a member on the site since I closed my subscription knowing all the men on there are just there to make fun of women. I have had bad experiences on that site. I joined that site not long ago about three days now. It was been introduced to me by a friend of mine who has done it and she is happily married with kids now. I also decided to give it a try but found no good luck. All the men I met on there seems to like nothing but just to see my nudity which I don't like.I proved them wrong and made them understood that I didn't join because I wanted to show off my nudity. I closed my account because I don't need it anymore. You are the last person I could send an email to since I liked your profile and found it interesting. Hope you don't mind the distance between us. I know most men from the states who also never wanted to take the risk of getting to know someone who was living so far away. You seem to be an interesting man and I liked almost everything you said about yourself. I also want you to know that distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out. Without romance, love gets dry. Without respect, love gets lost. Without caring, love gets boring.
Also, I live here with my mother alone since I am the only daughter to my parents. I lost my father when I was 22 years old. I have learnt so many things in my past. Glad to have a mother who is now living with me. I have been in a relationship which ended me no good. I was found in love with a man whom I loved and dedicated all my heart and soul to but he betrayed me this is why I joined the site to see if I could find someone to share my world with. I have been hurt so many times by mean lying men who just wanted nothing out of me. Well, I consider that as life since there are good and bad things to experience in life. I come from a well known family here in Ghana and I am well educated and was brought up from a good christian family. I do have my PhD doctoral in Journalism and Master's in Economics. I have always looked for a man of my equal but it is so hard to find one and I can understand life by just knowing nothing comes up easily. It is very good to know you have great respect for women, I also have great respect for great men.
I love poetry, books, walks on the beach and cozy candlelight dinners. I enjoy movies, television, music, traveling, the desert, the quietness of the mountains, the ocean, sunrises and sunsets. I am comfortable in jeans or a nice English suit. A nonsmoker/drinker, not into drugs (don't need them; I live in a natural high). I believe in enjoying the good life and am high on it. I have a healthy attitude about God and the Bible.
I'm a very outgoing person, who loves to dine out travel and enjoy the simple life. I'm a hopeless romantic and very affectionate. I have a good sense of humor and I like to make you laugh. I like to chill out with a good book or watch and movie and its even more fun when you have a special someone to do this with . I'm very easy to get along with and a very good listener . I love To share My Time with People I Love and care eg ,friends and Family.well about my family i come from a very small unit Of Family My Mother,and I,  I am an honest heart that's looking for a stable relationship. I understand it is important to lay down lasting foundations for a lasting relationship.
I am an active person who enjoys cycling and running best. I believe keeping fit is important. I am not interested in games or drama. I enjoy fine dining and am always looking for someone to share the appreciation of good food and fine wine. I am just as comfortable with my self up in old jeans. I love to dance: All styles, disco, house, or swing.I like getting out and checking out local talent and live concerts, here or anywhere. I enjoy movies and music for relaxation. A quiet night at home is also enjoyed and welcomed. I am open to try different activities and up for the challenge. I love spontaneity and being a bit impulsive. I am continually attempting to function from the inside out and to go with my intuitive impulses, because sometimes the spontaneous actions are the most fun, not expected and purely delightful .
I generally try to live a somewhat healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it). I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well. I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading, and more ,and would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me. .

I do not expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that. I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me. I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we DO spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble ; I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - ha ha.
I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work.
As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue her own interests and hobbies as well.As you can tell, I am not a bs'er and believe in total communication. Not that we can do that all the time, but ultimately we can get the feelings out without too much delay, I hope.
I believe in getting to know my partner and communication seems to be the best way to do this. I am adventurous. love to see new places and experience new things. I will always have the little kid in me ,even though I am very responsible !! love to play,I am on the computer getting into it more and more!!! dancing is important to me I want so badly to get better at it !!It is such a positive way of having fun and expressing yourself ,and you get to show your man to the world on the dance floor like a beautiful flower  equal partnership takes to to tango ,compromise ,communication is so important!!I will always be who I am at the core my soul my being who I am and what makes me ,Butt!!!  I am chuck full of potential   I actually can be taught ! LOL ! woman need to be like a guiding light for men we sometimes have a tendency to miss the little things ,not on purpose.woman and a man should work as a team together ,I cook ,clean,dust ,and do laundry.
Well, I could use the whole paper to write more about myself so I will like to end this for now and will look forward to hearing from you once again. I would want so much to know more about you too so that we can see where this leads us if only you would want to take the chance of taking the risk with the distance. Thank you very much for being so nice and sincere to me. I really do appreciate your good communication skills and I enjoy every single words you wrote to me. I have more to say but not until I read from you once again. I like to write emails because it is fun to me. I will also make sure I respond to your immediately the next time. I have also attach three pictures for you as well. Have a wonderful day and stay blessed.
Your New Friend ,
Melody Morrison.

How are you doing today . .
Wed , � 11/9/2011 � Thu 5:03 AM � Ghana time

Hello James,

Thanks for your response. � Reading from your email puts a smile on my face. Sorry I couldn't write back at you immediately. I was so busy all night doing paper work which I will be needing tomorrow for my news bulletin. I decided to take a bath and went over to bed since my brains could no longer function well.

I'm just waking up from bed and it's your thought that came into mind first so I decided to get on here in other to see if I had another letter from you to read as I really enjoy reading from your words. It is interesting to know such a wonderful man being single without a woman. I do not blame you for that aspect because I understand it is hard to come by the right someone these days. I know we barely know much about each other but it will be a privilege to tell you more about me.

Like we have talked about earlier, I lost my father when I was 22 years old. He is a white and was from London. My mother is an African and she is also white. This is the reason to why I turned as a white too. Most Ghanaian's are black but due to the background I come from makes me a white. I have lived here all my life and have never traveled overseas before. Living here with my mother has been all I know although I knew my father and was able to see him until he involved himself into the car accident which brought about the end of his life. It hurt so much to lose a love one but there is nothing you can do about nature.

Being with my mother is so wonderful because I am proud of her. She has turned me to who I am today and that makes me proud of myself too for paying attention to her advice and following the steps she laid down for me to follow. I am a well mannered lady, well educated and have good morals. I have my Masters in Civil Engineering Surveying and my PhD doctoral in Journalism. I love my job because it involves so much hard and brain work. Lots of paper work too. It keeps me busy and gives me something to do so that I won't have to waste my time sitting home. I do not depend on my mother because I believe I am old enough now. I am a strong lady and looking for a simple, strong noble man who will take me for who I am but not for what I have.

I really do not drink alcohol or abuse drugs. I am good Christian and I do worship the Lord and go to church every Sundays. It has been hell with me finding the right someone. My world has been in so much pain in vain. It hurts though but I believe with all that happened to me has thought me how life can take us. Most men has taken so many advantage over me and my heart has been broken so many times by mean men who took me for nothing but for what I had and useless me for no reason. I didn't think I deserve that but unfortunately, I found them to be just materialistic. Now, I am not looking to find a man who will play me or ever hurt me again so I am extra careful now. I want to do this right because it's my last.

I am aware of our age difference but  do not mind at all because I believe with an older man, there is no way I will ever get hurt or feel cheated since they know how to treat ladies and make them feel special. I want to learn much in life and I know with an older man, they have had so many experience in life which will broaden my brain into getting into life more. I want to start up a new life with the right man. I want to be loved and love as well. I have great respect for great men. I really find you as an interesting person whom I will really want to know. � I will be more happy if could set up a time and meet online have a instant chat. Because of you I am going to leave my messenger on and just buzz me of you get online.

Well, I hate to say this but will end this for now and go ready for work. I will get in touch with you when I get to work. I have a laptop which allows me to read emails. I will look forward to reading from you once again. Hope this should be enough for now.

Closing now, take care and enjoy your evening,

Sincere, Emma

Sorry For Delay 11/12/2011

It is a great honor having a surprise from you anytime I have to log into my email to see a mail in my Inbox.

Honesty, you really impress me with your words. I don't know how to put them into description but trust me, you are really good at what you say to me.It has been like a life time I had a man been so open, loyal and straight forward with me as you have. This puts a great smile on my face and you can't imagine what it means to me just knowing I have found someone who truly mean what he says to a woman. You are one of a kind and I hardly believe such a wonderful person like you being single. I can understand your pain knowing you haven't met the right woman yet. It seems difficult to find the right person these days. I believe it takes lots of time and patience to come across your heart desire.

So far, knowing you has been an interesting thing in my life this year. I haven't had this feeling in a very long time. I feel there is a chemistry between us because we seem to have so much in common. Thanks for the pictures. I like them and it looks great around where you live. I can understand how you manage to survive and believe me, I am not looking to find someone who is worthy. I have been with many men who were rich enough but I didn't take them for what they have because that wasn't really matters to me. I am concerned about the beauty inside a man not on the outside. I believe there is so much we need to learn from each other.

I haven't been there myself before. Hope everything is fine with you. It is already 1:55 AM here my time as I write you this email. I know it should be later in the afternoon your time. I still don't know the time difference between us. Well, I have nothing much planned for tonight so I will watch a fine movie here in the living room and  stay in touch with the computer so that I don't miss your email. How I wish you had Yahoo Instant Messenger which could allow us to chat online anytime you are available. All the same, it is great to know you have someone who can help out to set it up on your computer. I can't wait because I believe there is so many things we haven't said to each other.

Sure, I believe in expressing myself too in persons than on the computer. Well, with this online dating thing, we somethings need to communicate in other to allow one another to understand what we are saying and understand at least 80% of what the person is saying. I like holding hands with the right someone taking a long walk with him and exploring new areas as I disguess what I have planned for the future for us with him.

My past has really thought me many things and there is no need for you to be sorry about what has happened to me before. Thank you very much for letting me know you are not going to treat me the way those men did to me. You have no idea what it means to me just having your word. Hope you are going to stand upon your word forever. I promise to remain sincere, honest, and faithful to you a lifetime. I do not think we are ever going to separate because there are many things I like about you which will make it difficult for us to separate. I really want to know more about you.

It seems so hard to meet the right person these days.  I believe in true love but I think very few people experience it.  They end up settling and not finding that one who they would treasure all their life and that person who would treasure them. I have never found true love.  It seems that all the guys I am interested in are not interested in me and the ones who are interested in me I am not interested in them. 

Now with on line dating or what ever you call it, finding a spouse or mate.  Well it is a whole different story. There is no way to fall in love at first sight because you never meet this person in a crowd or some other place to fall in love at first sight.  It is fall in love with the words a person writes, your lucky if you really get to know even 5% of that person and the rest you just hope and pray will be all you have ever dreamed of. 

With all that said I will tell you a bit about me and my hope and dream.  First I have been hurt over and over by mean lying men ,so my trust is very low and I feel that there are very few true men out there.  I will tell you more of my situation at a latter date.  I believe with the right man could love him like no one in this world. I have great respect for great men.I try to treat them tenderly and with kindness.  All I have ever wanted in life is to be with a man who I am attracted to and he is attracted to me. Some one who is all so beautiful on the inside. 

One who is my companion and friend who will stand by me through thick and thin and will never give up on me.  One who is honest, truthful and faithful and will never ever cheat on me. I must be the only woman for you forever and always.  This is all I ever wanted is true love, to be loved and encouraged by him and I would do the same, I would die for a man like that.  The problem is there seems to be very few like that in the world today. I have been lonely for a very long time.  However; I do have mum who have been very dear to me but soon they she is going to all be on there own starting her own lives.  I long to be with the right man and that is why I am looking now because I want to find that special man,the right man for me and me for the right man.  I prefer to play for keeps so I want to do this right.

I hate to say this but will close this for now as I could write a whole page about myself. I will end this for now and will look forward to hearing from you.

Looking forward for your response. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with me. Tell me more and don't hesitate to ask questions. � � Talk to you soon.

Sincere , � Emma

Good Morning 12/3/2011

Dear James,

            I am here to write you something before I leave to work. I just received a call from my manager. I have just finish with my ironing and I am set up to go to work. I couldn't sleep well. You are going to be the work I am going to do today. Because I can't just stay a minute without thinking of you. You are going to be in my thought through out the day.
I will say   what a wonderful beginning to a new month. It began late in the previous month as I know I am going to find someone who is going to love me. we chatting online  here confessing my love, and then it happens all over again. The feelings that I have felt for you all along begin to resurface. Only this time, I am free to act on them without fear of upsetting myself.
Thank you, James. What more can a woman say to the man who opened his heart to her, allowing her to feel the warmth of him love across the great distance that separates them? You truly have no idea what I feel for you.
I try to put this feeling into words, but fail miserably. This feeling of being both scared and at peace, of having both butterflies and a sense of calm, is a feeling that I have only dreamed about. As the days continue to pass, my love for you continues to grow. I never thought I had the capacity to love anybody as much as I love you right now. Yet, my love for you continues to mature, growing beyond the realm of my heart. It seems that you have become the fiber of my soul, the very reason for my existence.
I have no other words to describe the way you make me feel. No words, no actions could even come close. ( just a little story here for you ) I believe that Ronald Regan said it best to Nancy in a letter, telling her only that, "I more than love you". Their love was a strong love, surviving everything, even death. I believe that even after his passing, Nancy felt Ronald's love for her raining down upon her. That is why she has always seemed at peace after the death of such a truly loving husband. That is the love that I feel for you.

Forever Yours , � Emma.

IM Chat 12/7/2011

Good Morning 12/8/2011

Hello James, How are you doing today, Hope everything is well with you. �I am leaving to work now. Thinking of you will be the most work I will be doing today. Cos the is no minute witout haveing you in my mind.

Darling, I have really missed you even now. I kept thinking of you, the wonderful flutters I get in the pit of my stomach when I chat with you, the tender encouraging words and advice you give to me. You are so open to love. It's hard to describe the emotion churning inside of me.

There are many things that I regret in my past. . the greatest is that we didn't meet sooner But I thank God we did meet. No matter what happens, just know that I really do love you and, Sweetheart, I wish you were here with me.

I love you with the deepest passion and I wish we could see each other every day but I know that will happened very soon. It hurts me to know how I sometimes can be a little selfish when it comes to you, but, Boy, I am in the deepest love for you.

Did you know that I think about you at night wishing you were here? I love you, my handsome Purple prince. I want you to know how I feel. It's hard to hid my feeling from you, I have to be opend to you. We really need to talk tonight again I don't know the right time yet. My heart bleeds blood for you and I can't see. My stomach hurts and my head is throbbing but I want you to know more than anything that I miss you.

Forever in love with you, � � � � Melody.

2:31:45 PM   JAMES : Have many men used you online Darling?? You've not mentioned that before.

2:32:29 PM   Melody Emma : Nope

2:32:43 PM   Melody Emma : What do you mean by that.

2:33:18 PM   Melody Emma : You are my first and only man I have ever met online.

2:33:40 PM   JAMES : You also said you haven't had sex since 2008 which seems amazing to me for a Woman as Beautiful and Sexy as you are.

2:34:21 PM   Melody Emma : I mean other men pretand to love but after you show them you nude or fuck you, they will not care anymore.

2:35:40 PM   JAMES : You haven't been Fucked since 2008?? What's wrong with Ghanian Men??

2:36:21 PM   Melody Emma : Yes because I never make myself cheap. I always let them know I am ready for marriage, so marriage before sex then they turn away.

2:51:29 PM   JAMES : Darling, in talking with the US Embassy in Accra about you and how we met and have been communicating since November they had serious doubts. But when I mentioned we had seen each other on Webcams they said that is a good sign that you are real because most Scammers don't communicate on Webcams.

2:51:52 PM   Melody Emma : For the webcam and making love. It's there always. But I also have to make sure you are not just trying to use me on here.

2:53:10 PM   JAMES : And the more I see you on your webcam the less fear I have. Anyone can sit behind a keyboard and type sexy things, sometimes even men pretending to be women. It happens many times.

2:53:49 PM   JAMES : The Embassy told me.

2:54:08 PM   Melody Emma : So this have to tell you whom I am since you have seen me on webcam. Or you still doubt me. If you said it's okay with the embassy because of the cam, then what again do you want m to do to prove I am real. You have my pictures and kow everything about me.

2:54:50 PM   Melody Emma : So don't you have any believe in me still. .?

2:57:34 PM   JAMES : They told me Scammers take many attractive pictures off the internet and use them to pretend that is who they are typing to. Often these pictures are attractively and professionally taken as many of your photos look like.

3:04:56 PM   JAMES : Your agent who told me he processes many Fiancee Visas isn't even listed as an official Ghanian Travel Agency.

3:08:01 PM   Melody Emma : Well I don't know much about that. But they do try with a grow of poeple like church and tourism. They do work on our travling at work. That is why I took the chance to let them work on my Visa to get it fast.

3:09:01 PM   JAMES : And the US Embassy in Accra didn't know of any Fiancee Visas that had been processed by Jexel.

3:09:13 PM   Melody Emma : So tell me what you reall want to know that will make you believe in me. You are thinking I have been lying to you.

3:10:06 PM   JAMES : They said seeing you on a Webcam live is a good sign that you are Real as most Scammers can't do this.

3:10:42 PM   Melody Emma : So what again do you want to know. ?

3:16:03 PM   JAMES : Seeing you Live on your Webcam whenever we chat will confirm it is my Precious Melody that I am talking to. And you can see me anytime you want as I've told you since December.

3:16:48 PM   JAMES : Including right Now.

3:17:27 PM   JAMES : Most Scammers can't do this.

3:17:28 PM   Melody Emma : Yes I said you will see me as many as you went but what will really make you trust me enough to support work on my Visa and send the money to my agent.

3:20:46 PM   Melody Emma : Okay for how long are we going to stay on here. Because time is also moving. I start showing you webcan from sunday and you siad you have the money ready. So when are you going to start working on my Visa for me.

3:21:17 PM   Melody Emma : Yes it worked fine that sunday but it have been giving me problem on my computer.

3:22:14 PM   JAMES : After I see you live for a week on your webcam.

3:23:22 PM   JAMES : One time on Sunday live on your webcam after 2 months of only typing.

3:23:38 PM   Melody Emma : Sure you will see me through the weekned but I want a promise. Because I seeing me on here is not a problem.

3:24:35 PM   JAMES : It has been a problem for 2 months.

3:25:17 PM   Melody Emma : I want you to promise me this time around and you have to stick to it. I don't like the kind of stories coming up one after the other as I try to prove my love to you.

3:25:38 PM   Melody Emma : Yes so when are you ready for me.

3:26:23 PM   JAMES : As soon as we can get your Visa approved Darling.

3:26:28 PM   Melody Emma : When do you think you can start working on my Visa . . . Just want to be sure no story come up after showing you the cam thro the week.

3:29:40 PM   JAMES : Have your agent contact me again and I can work things out with him starting with wiring him money on a week from Wednesday the 15th.

3:29:50 PM   Melody Emma : But we never start doing anything on my Visa yet and you know it's going to take soem time to get it approved.

3:30:31 PM   Melody Emma : Okay

3:30:55 PM   Melody Emma : On the 15th.

3:38:06 PM   Melody Emma : I will just like to know your schedule for tomorrow. When are you going to contact the agent and it's willl be best for me to put everything into the agent hands and make sure of it.

3:38:43 PM   Melody Emma : I just want to know how thng will be done tomorrow so I know what my plans are.

 3:39:43 PM   JAMES : Before I send the money, I have an important question for You??

3:40:16 PM   Melody Emma : What will important question my love.

3:40:54 PM   Melody Emma : I just need to trust in this and see what will come out and how it will end.

3:41:08 PM   JAMES : Why should I send Four thousand US dollars to a bogus travel agent to bring the Woman who�s been telling me she Loves me madly for over 3 months now and wants to be my wife. When I discover she is NOT an innocent newspaper editor living with her cancerous Mother. �She IS Instead an Infamous, widely Fucked Porn Queen and Lesbian, known as Lia 19 shown all over the Internet.

Good Morning

Dear James ,

My love, I can not stand this. It is just too hard to be away from you. I am usually okay, but at times like this (especially at night) it just becomes too much to bear. I can not sleep tonight from thinking of you. I never understand why things in my life choose to be this way.

I just have to tell you, James, to share with you that sacred part of my inner, secret life, the thoughts I think that everyone has but does not always say. I know that sometimes pride gets in the way of expressing emotions. I believe that is the cause of my reticence in telling you how I feel sometimes, that and the fact that passion in an extreme state can be scary, you almost just want to shut it away for fear that it will eventually destroy you. I think of my feelings, my love for you not with craving or with hope or even desire, but just with a kind of wonder that such things could be. You have opened my eyes to how love should feel. I can promise you this, I will never again settle for less.

But, at this time in both of our lives, we are surrounded by possibilities of choice, open doors and wide horizons, which I know, may come between us. But I also know and hope that they could eventually bring us together, with both of us being better people for the time we spent apart. And so for now I function between maybe and maybe not. It's a strange mixture of love and sex and sorrow and hope and longing and faith. And even though you are far away, you're all that I can see, I carry you with me through all my days and I miss you more than I can say. Also, James, remember this - I love you no less than if you were right here now. My sorry end sad but it's the end of me. I am still alive with with possibilities to make my dreams.

I know I have a tendency to be impetuous at times - thus the reason for this letter. I think I will mail it now, before I consider what you might think of it. I love you and am waiting for the day when I can feel your arms around me with great pleasures.  No you the truth about me and I appreciate it if you can be open up with me. Tell me you interest in me and will not west more time at all. Take care.

Love always, � Melody.