Aisha Arthur: fufu and goat

From: A A < a324a2b9@yahoo.com >
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 7:21 PM
Subject: a324a2b9

My name is Aisha, 29-year old Single female, 5’7” [height] and 60kg (weight) I’m from well trained and decent family, we all attend the same church.

My mother is Scottish my Father is Ghanaian. I lost both my Parents. I was born and raised in New town a small neighborhood in Accra the capital city of Ghana where I lived most of my life. I'm single with a three year old daughter -Ashley- living with me. my elder Brother is working with Blue Sky Company at Nsawam as well as schooling - GIMPA and he is married with a kid.

I completed Te-ma Secondary School and Ananse Secretarial Institute. Awaiting Cape Coast University long distances from next Month to pursue my degree in business management / administrative / marketing option, which is my ambition.

I also went to bible school for two years and one year in school of ministries (Victory bible school of ministries) just to have broad knowledge of the bible so that nobody will deceive me when we come to bible knowledge.

I’m a hardworking lady, who loves working and loves my job very well, I’m a fast learner who is always ready to learn and teach, I’m social, friendly, intelligent, jovial, generous and accommodate any kind of person – from low (cleaner/younger) to upper (manager/older).

I don’t show off or look down on people due to these I’m loved by people closer to me, may be to those farer that one I wouldn’t know, I am a principle and open-minded lady.

In my school days I was athlete, I took part in long distance, long jump, triple jump, high jump, table tennis, netball, basketball, volleyball and football for my schools and I really enjoyed them, you know what, I enjoy male’s activities and I learn t a lot from them (the way they talk, the way they treat ladies, in fact, name them yourself, a whole lot).

When it comes to food, I don’t discriminate, western or local dishes, my favorite locally is fufu and goat light soup, when it comes to drink, my favorite is Malta Guinness, beside, little wine mixed with Schweppes.

I enjoy listening to music especially gospel, cool and culture. I love beach resorts, just to feel the sea breeze but not “beach” in coat where lot of people are there doing their own things, I prefer decent places.

My free time activities are reading, watching movies, computer games, listening to music at times dance on it, and sleeping.

When it comes to relationship (the qualities) someone who is faithful to himself, to God and to me, you know what, the rest I will keep it for myself. a God fearing, faithful, truthful, trustworthy, loyalty, loving, caring, easy going, down to earth, romantic, passionate, honest and kind man to settle down with to spend the rest of my life with till death do us apart. Someone to make me happy and love me for who i am. Someone to share good and bad times with together. Someone to grow old with till death do us apart.

Well, I'm definitely faithful to my self, God, family, and loved ones, what I'm looking for is someone who can be themselves, enjoy being with me, loyal and honest, besides that I take people as they are and learn to love all the good with the bad.

I have actually been single for awhile now (we won't say how long), my last relationship we just drifted apart he was a very nice guy but we lacked communication. before that I was dumped for another woman (to make things worse it was his Ex, and she wasn't a very nice person)

When we come to relationship, I have lot to talk about. I've being in a relationship for five good years where the guy was too authoritative, too jealous to extend of telling me to become a housewife when married which killed my spirit because I’m somebody who loves working.

He doesn’t allow me to go to my company’s gathering such as half year dinner, at the end of year dinner, farewell parties, etc so my department complains a lot, at times they don’t even tell me when there is such gatherings and what they normally tell me is that when they invite me I give them excuses meanwhile it wasn’t my wish, seizing of mobile phones not even once, etc. So I have to call it a quit because I don’t want to become a slave but a partner.

I’ve also being in a relationship where I played man’s role, meanwhile relationship is to give and take, I treated this guy like how a lady want to be treated by a man by pampering. name them yourself thinking he will changed but it was just unfortunate. I am a woman and I want to feel like one and to be loved. I’m human and I have feelings.

Aisha Arthur.