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From: Dami Roper [mailto:roperdami@yahoo.com]
Sent: Tuesday, April 13, 2010 12:47 AM
Subject: Returning Interest ...CURIOUS
Hello dear,
how you doing? hope you are ok. i got your email. its real flattering of you to write me back. sorry i didnt write you bck earlier. dont know where to start in writing this but i guess i should tell you about myself.there isnt much but its going to take some reading.i dont really know a whole lot about this internet dating thing because i'm new to it. my friends were the ones who actually introduced it to me.i guess i have to tell you about me.dont think there is a whole lot to me. i'm your regular person.i'm 27 going on 28 in a few days. i'm partly from the dominican republic and partly from south-africa. i lived in the dominican rep until i was 5 and then i and my family moved to south-africa .i live in aberdeen,cape-town with my parents and my brother.i have an apartment of my own though, where i go to when i feel like being alone. i have an elder sister and a younger brother. my elder sister's married right now. i schooled in cyprus up till my university degree. i have a bachelors degree in business administration but i havent even worked with my degree for a minute. right now i model for a living. i started modelling from university and i have been into it since then. i get to travel around a lot so much so its become kind of like a hobby. anyway,thats the nature of the job. i have to travel from place to place when working. i have a real tight working schedule. i work all year round and only get a vacation once a year. my vacations are usually one-month long though atimes i have extended it. its fun modelling but its real stressful especially as i havent yet acheived Naomi Campbell status(smile). i'm not complaining though because it affords me the opportunity to see the world and meet lots of people. away from my job to my personality. i'm a kind,adventurous,spontaneous and honest person. when i set my mind on something i really go for it. i love the out-doors. i dont smoke or do drugs. i only get to drink on few occasions and then it has to be in a social gathering. i like to dress smartly or should i say sexy(smile). i like to be comfortable in what i wear anyway. love perfumes too. i think they make a statement that compliment your personality. i like playing tennis and i really am good at it. maybe i should have gone professional. dont think i cud bear having an injury that would keep me out of the game. i'm too emotional for that. i also love cooking,its relaxes me. i know i'm real good at it too. i love swimming,travelling,reading and going shopping.i know some people that dont like ladies who go shopping but thats me. i've bin involved in relationships in the past before but it really didnt end well. thats the reason i got on the dating site in the first place. i'm looking to get involved with someone again. its somehow a scary notion after what i've been through but i know i am strong and i know what i really want so here i am.
i'm an emotional person and i'm scared of getting hurt again but that wudnt stop me from trying to live again. you might be wondering why i had to come on a dating site to find someone. well first my friends pressured me into it and also i'm of the school of thought that says for every lady there's a man out there.......someone who was made for you and who you were made for. if i'm unlucky to meet someone else,i might be happy but wit the right person its bliss. so i decided to come on the dating site hoping to find my soulmate.i get to meet lots of guys in my line of work but i already have made up my mind a long time ago about getting in a relationship with anyone who's kinda involved in my line of work or someone who's kinda like a public figure. most cases only end up in heartbreak. even when these people eventually get married, they usually end up divorcing. its sad and what is worse atimes is when they have kids. maybe i'm from the old school or maybe its because i'm from africa but i wanna get married and stay married.i know i would obviously have problems in relationships because i dont think there's a relationship thats just a bed of roses,but then we could always work things out instead of having to go separate ways. i love kids a lot. i'm looking to have mine real soon. i came on the dating site looking to meet someone who is nice and caring. someone who knows how to treat a lady well and make her feel loved. someone with a sense of humour. someone who is honest. someone who is looking to start up a family soon.someone with a sense of family values. i hope these things are not too much to ask from a person. i cant say wat exactly it was that exactly got me attracted to u,maybe its chemistry,wat eva that means,or if its the allure of the unknown pulling me to you but whatever, i really wud like to get to know you better. luckily for me, i have time off now becuase i am on vacation. i'm actually writing you from my hotel room here in nigeria. nigeria is somewhere in africa. i got here on sunday. i have a month off before i go to work. i'm here in nigeria with my friend,Hillary and her boyfriend. she talked me into coming here with her. Hillary's my child-hood friend. we r like sistas. she models too like i do. her boyfriend has a job he's doing for the nigerian government and she wanted to spend time here with him so i came along. there's lots for me to do here too. seeing i like animals,there's safaris i like to go on. also lots of places i like to see. i've heard lots of stories about this place that are not real nice but its not half as bad now i am here. its kinda backward here,most things are done with cash here unlike europe or the US or even other parts of africa. i was real surprised to find i could not use my credit card here. luckily for me i came in here with some cash on me too. to an extent though its nice. i wud hv bin real upset if i had to pay for things though but i'm on an all-expense-paid-vacation. the pple seem nice and friendly though i heard there are some places that are not real safe. well that could go for almost everywhere in the world. the weather too is lovely so i can go relax at the beach whenever i want to. i dnt know anyone here aside from Hillary and her boyfriend becuase this is my first time here but i was fortunate to meet a friend of mine at the airport when i came in. he plays soccer. have known him for a while. we are good friends. he goes bck though to his club next week though. i hope i have not bored you with my stories about myself. now i'm looking to know u better too so you could write me back and tell me about urself and hopefully we could chat. i have yahoo messenger so we can chat there. i am not much of an internet person though.we could also talk on the fone which is more convinient for me so i dont have to strain my eyes sitting in front of my laptop but i guess it would be fun chatting with you and getting to know you better. i got a cell phone when i came in here. my number is +2348052561067. you can call me on it anytime. we might have time difference though but feel free to call me. would be nice hearing your voice. do you have a number i could reach you on too? i could give you a call sometime too. like i said i dont know much about this internet thing so i dont know where we go from here. i know you are miles apart and i'm wondering myself how this is meant to work but i'm open to anything. i guess we could talk and then think about meeting sometime before i go back to work. maybe you could come here so we meet or i could come see you. let me know what is convinient for you as i'm free as air now and i could be on the next flight out to see you if i wanted to. i'm anticipating meeting u because if i hv to go back to work,its going to be hard keeping this up because i have a real crazy work schedule. if you wondering how this ought to work between us if i am that busy,its a bridge we could cross when we get there but what is most important to me is having a stable relationship and starting a family. if i have to get a new job or take a while off modelling,its no problem. i would just have to let my agent know on time.i have to run off now. wanna do some exercises. i'd be looking to hear from you. let me know if u have yahoo messenger now so we chat and also give me a call so we talk. i hope to hear from you real soon....hv a nice day.ciao!
Dami
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From: Dami Roper
[mailto:roperdami@yahoo.com]
Sent: Tuesday, April 27, 2010 12:55 AM
Subject: RE: hola
G'morningand how u doing?just read ur email.was right initially wen i
thot u had lost interest.your email does confirm it.sad though we didnt
really get a chance to really know ourselves.i did read abt the warning
concerning nigeria.well i am here and things r not as bad as pple make out
although its different from any other place i have bin.its a 3rd world
country anyway and leaves much to be desired.its my 1st tym here and blive
me,i love goin to new places.its sad my location's a barrier to us gettin to
know ourselves.like u too,i hv taken my profile off the site.guess it isnt
for me.wish u luck.if u still wanna correspond,u hv my number here,call
me.take care and hv a nice day ahead.ciao!
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From: Dami Roper
[mailto:roperdami@yahoo.com]
Sent: Wednesday, April 28, 2010 1:46 AM
Subject: RE: hola
You havent actually told me if your name's Peter. Just
assumed so from your email addy. hope i am rightcos i've actually
gotten a little accustomed to calling you Peter in my head.How you doing
anyway? I can understand a little about ur being skeptical about a new
relationship seeing you have probably been hurt before. I was that way until
only recently. I've decided to though to move on and find true happiness cos
i know it lies somewhere not too far away. Thanks so much for your pictures.
They were nice. Love your sense of fashion. I have sent a couple of my
pictures. Hope you like them. I've gotta run off to breakfast now. Looking to
hear your voice soon. Have a nice day. Ciao!
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