Hello Young,

 

I just have to thank you for replying my mail, if not for other things but for the efforts you made to type the email. I want to inform you in this mail ,I've turned to the Internet to look for a partner/friend, because I haven’t yet met someone who has really fulfilled my expectations. I’m not searching for adventures or games, on the contrary, I hope to find that special person in you, and someone with whom I can create the family I’ve always wanted and spend the rest of my life with. Therefore, I sincerely look forward to becoming a proof that this type of meeting possibility really works and changes people’s lives...Well, I grew up and am doing all my schooling in Westminster London down here in United Kingdom.Right now i am in my final year in the University and my major is International Relations. As regards my family, we are just three in numbers, I am the first child while the second, she by profession a nurse,the last but still in School studying Sociology.

 

 I have great regards for my school and give to it all the necessary attentions. To have a good mark and job.Judging from your mail, you look cute and charming, I’m sure you’ve received many responses and proposals, but please believe me that it’s not my intention to just flatter you, by telling you that you’ve impressed me! Nevertheless “I enjoy spoiling and pampering my partner…I believe in God; I feel that family is the most important support in life; I know true love exists; I immensely value friendship; honesty, I hate conflict; I’m sincere and detest hypocrisy; I’m open minded; I respect other’s ideas and listen to them (so I expect to be listened to, because I wait for my turn to speak); I’m witty and have a great sense of humour;

 

I think our destiny is something we discover every day,every hour,minutes,and seconds, reflecting to and depending on how we face it, what we do and what we don’t and I do not believe in second chance,  first good impression. Appealing, cerebral and of average size, my best qualities are loyalty, passion and creativity. I am a Lady of great integrity, my quiet serene demeanor accords me an air of mystery and diffidence as I go my way as a serene, wise observer of human society. I have a penchant for remaining above the fray and for maintaining my individuality.I am always well groomed.

 

I can be best described as optimistic, high spirited and broadminded. I love romance, freedom and I am very much future oriented. I am a physical person. I respond to the world through action, rather than practicality, intellect, or emotion. While I am about action and getting things started, I am not in a hurry. I want to experience life, rather than read about it. I am an eager explorer and interested in mental outreach. I enjoy travel and spiritual study, and have a daring and adventurous spirit. I am high-spirited and enthusiastic, often flirtatious, and enjoy social life immensely. In my leisure time, athleticism comes to the forefront but for now this hobby is already slipping away from my hands. Personal challenge is always appreciated, and I prefer solitary or one-on-one sports that stretch myself to the limit. My philosophical side makes me enjoy drama and debate, as well as most other mentally challenging pursuits. In love relationships, I am sincere, straightforward, flirtatious and playful. I can also be one cool customer. Although few would describe me as being warm, cuddly, or sentimental, those close to me see me as an important source of support in their lives. That's because when things are chaotic or falling apart, I'm the type of person who can be virtually unflappable. I am also known for being a talented problem solver. When it comes to my relationships, I usually know how to speak up for myself so that others know what I want. But that doesn't mean I'm rigid or inflexible. In fact, I'm quite willing to acquiesce for the right person. They just need to make their case honestly.

 

IDEAL MATCH FOR ME 

 

 The type of man who attracts me is honest, direct, and reliable - who can be my "pal". I like a man who's playful one minute, and philosophical the next. Above all, companionship, honesty, and idealism appeal to me - and a sense of humour! My ideal partner is a very passionate person who knows how to fully enjoy life. He has a highly active imagination when it comes to trying new things. More than most people, he knows how to value the pleasures of romance and is not afraid to pursue those feelings when the timing is right. He also has a strong intellect, with a penetrating thought process and a continual curiosity about the world around him.

 

ANOTHER SIDE OF ME.

 

I paints romantic portraits with words. Strong, but sensitive. Healthy, beautiful body. Warm soft voice with curious accent. NOT into the abuse of anyone or anything. Wise as a sage, with heart of a child. Love and forgiveness a way of life. Bohemian. Social transcendent. Spiritual drummer. Faithful friend. Very romantic sweet lover. I would like to meet a man that believes in the power of love and forgiveness. Wants to transcend beyond the worldly norm and discover new vistas of companionship, sharing, peace, and joy. Someone who is very romantic and believes in angels Surely, no one lives to himself or herself and what ever we can do today for one another may stand for our glory tomorrow. Love feels no burden,thinks nothing of trouble,attempts what is above its strength, pleads no excuse of impossibility...It is therefore able to undertake all things, and it completes many things,and warrants them to take effect,where he who does not love would faint and lie down.Love is watchful and sleeping, slumbered not.Though weary, it is not tired;though pressed, it is not straitened;though alarmed, it is not confounded... Friends are God's way of taking care of us.

There is only one happiness in life,to love and be loved.Marriage is not a ritual or an end.It is a long, intricate,intimate dance together and nothing matters more than your own sense of balance and your choice of partner.

 

I remain Yours Truly in Love.

Hilda. 

 

I know what it is all about to keep the glow of love and passion on, because that’s what a woman needs and not just for a woman but  in a relationship too. Yes, I believe that peace in a relationship is very necessary and beautiful. That is to say, the more intimacy and love in a relationship, the more conducive for peace and respect to reign.

 

I believe in true love and with a strong passion that can be unshakable in all circumstances, a love that can carry you through from worse time to joyous time. I have long searched for that love but haven’t graped it. And  I want to say, your technical approach  and your  kind words to me make me to understand that someone somewhere has been kept and designed to come my way.

 

I want to tell  you that nothing happen without a purpose, since you have really demonstrated your feelings and thoughts to me, I think I  have to come out openly to you. Your wish is my desire ok. Don’t worry about anything, I’m assuring you, our relationship will be built solidly and constructively. And God’s fearing will be the foundation of our relationship. I don’t really know how to put it but be informed and concious that I’m solidly with you. I have many questions for you, I can say all possible questions since I know very little about you. But let me start with a few of them, and you can elaborate from there :
Do you have any particular hobbies? what’s your favorite activity? what’s your sign, not that I really believe in such things, but just for fun…what’s your idea of having fun? how do you describe your character? what people usually think of you? what things make you happy, what things make you sad? etc etc…

 

Maturity is what I look for in a man.There are some circumstance that can crop up in  a relationship but with a sense of maturity from the man things can be put right. So I’m quite happy to meet a matured man like you. In fact judging from your communication so far, I am very much convinced that we are compatible.  I wanna tell you that we can make it in this relationship because your attitude regarding  what it takes to build a relationship and how a couple should  work as one to achieve one purpose and how the mutuality and intimacy should flow and your manner of  outspoken absolutely give me a conviction that you are my dreamed man.

 

So honey, relax ok. You will not regret ever knowing me ok. Your life will be full of joy because you are with a God fearing woman.

 

Well I’m  the eldest in my family and next to me is about 20. I should be 22 and half now. Ok mm…my mum and dad is ok. I think they should be at their late sixties and late fifties. So that’s a brief information about my family.Mmm.. feel free to ask anything you wanna know about me ok.I love pleasing and being pleased by my man. I like equal relationships rather than being submissive or dominating. I like men with strong personality, but all in peace, no wars, no games.Communication is absolutely essential, to my mind  the better a couple communicate, the better the relationship will be. Understanding each other's needs and caring and respecting them. Understanding the other's limits and boundaries. And growing which is so important. A relationship where you learn and you teach.

Dearest Young,

 

Thanks for your response and that healthy and lovely email that you sent to me.Normally I would have love to spend time on the net with you chatting irrespective of the time difference but due to time lost in attending studies and as a final year student, I spend most of my time in the library trying to make up for the time.Thanks, it is my pleasure meeting you as well and I pray that we develop a healthy and lovely relationship acceptable to both of us in the future.I attached my photos for you.

It is a good news that I was previleged to visit Africa this year. In the World Youth Organization where i am member,I have been selected to attend International conferences which are to take place, firstly here in United Kingdom and also in Senegal West-African by September 10th - 17th 2007 and September 21th - 28th 2007 respectively.Each will last for a complete one week.I will like and be happy to attend both conferences with you as my lovely pal or friend.
This is only on the grounds that if it pleases you to attend the conference with me. It is totally your choice since it will be an opportunity for both of us to meet each other.Please let me know whether you would like to attend the conference and if you would,I will like you to send me your personal email address.I will use the contact address that you'll forward to me to prepare an invitation for you from the World Youth Organization in Westminster,London.I will need your full name as it appears in your passport,your surname first and contact address to  prepare the invitation for you.I want to prepare an official invitation for you.

But the organization that is sponsoring international participants only offers group Visas,with minimum of three people in the group and maximum of six people.You may wish to attend alone if you couldn't form a group to attend the Youth Conference.Your group has to be either three people or six people.Each person must have a valid international traveling passport and must be in a good sound of health. I have given you links to contact the organization that is sponsoring all International Invitees to know more about your invitation.The address is; worldyouthorg@mail2sponsor.com <trans4world@mail2sponsor.com>

Hope to hear from you soon.

 

Yours Lovely,