Well to start off my name is Vera and i am very sorry for the
late respond ok, Wel I come from a rare combination , Dad is American
while mom is Nigerian. My Father died some months back and i had to
relocate to meet my mom in Nigeria, I don't really know
him that well because he was always on business trips . My mom passed
away weeks back , after she was attacked by some armed men here in
Nigeria , so unfortunately you won't have a chance to meet her in
person, yet you'll see her influence in my heart. I speak fluent
English and my native language. . Tell me more about yourself, anything
at all will do. I like the fact that you are straightforward about the
fact that you are looking for a serious relationship. So many men feel
like they have to be in the "I'm not looking for anything serious"
mode, because they think that's what women want to hear. Thanks for
taking a chance and just showing who you are. So I should probably tell
you a little more about me.
consider myself to be very simple. I believe that men needs to be
treated with respect and as a equal partner in a relationship, but all
I seem to find is the ones that does not know how to respond to that or
is untrusting to it. I feel like u should treat somebody with respect
and like they are a person not a peice of meat or whatever. I am the
type of person who wants somebody to feel wanted not just as a trophy.
I am a very affectionate person and I love to cuddle, I like to show
somebody how I feel not just telling them. I love to be close to
somebody whether it is in the bed on the couch or wherever. I guess my
dreams would be is to be happy and have a family my goals in life I
want to go into business for my self oneday but that will be a while
from now. I guess I want to work on my love life and be happy first. I have always
wanted a child of my own and to have a family, but I guess when the time is right it will happen.
like to play sports just as much as I do watching them. Most of all i
like to spend time with who I am with, and cuddle up and watch a movie.
It is my opinion that we all want the same thing in regards to a
partner, and that most of us either do not know how or is scared to and
sabotage themselves from getting it. Ok, I like the outdoors, but I
don't care about hunting or fishing, well I will fish with an un-baited
hook if it means I will get to spend some time with someone I care
about. There are a lot of things I like doing as in dancing, cooking,
camping, etc. My ultimate goal and what I think would make me happy is
to get back on my feet and have a man by my side that I love and loves
me, and children that I can raise and have fun with.
I am very
relationship oriented and I believe life is too short to waste. When I
am in a relationship I am committed, honest, and loyal. I think that
falling in love is always a good thing, even if it doesn't work out.
There is always something to learn from being with someone, and happy
times and memories should be cherished. Friendship
comes first for me. That is not to say I never get hurt because I do. I
have been burnt so bad. My last relationship ended on a very sad note
for me but I do not believe in regrets. I tell you this because I
cannot predict the future. For some people a relationship has to be all
or nothing...I don't feel that way.
It is obvious that I don't
know how to keep a good man since I am 24 and never married, but I
never in the past nor do I intend to intentionally hurt someone by
cheating, mistreating, or abusing them. Ok, for my questions to you.
What are some of your goals, hopes and dreams? How long have you been
single? Do you have any brothers or sisters? Do you have any kids? If
yes, How many? If there is something you want to say but you think you
might be rambling or it is not important, it is ok, to me it is
important. Well...I see I wrote a novel here, I am looking forward to
getting to know you better. I guess I will go for now hope to hear from